THIS IS ME!

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Yep, not a skinny model but not a hedgehog either.  I am blogging about trying to find my place here in a society that clearly prefers the likes of this girl.  I am going to be posing questions, offering advice, including fashion, make up etc.  But most importantly, trying to find peace with myself as I try to get healthier (not about dieting per say) and still be confident and sexy while I am still PLUS SIZE.

NOT ME 

Let's start with some questions.

1. Can you be healthy and fat?  Answer:  By all studies I have found, the answer is yes!  However, being heavy is not as healthy as being at your normal weight.  Your organs have to work harder, you put more pressure on your joints and bones and have higher risks of diseases like diabetes and heart disease.  But I know from personal experience that I have good numbers for blood sugar and cholesterol and no issues with joints etc.  So it is possible to be  healthy and fat.
2. Do you want to be fat?  Answer;  I don't!  However many enjoy being heavier.  Many men love it!  And I am trying to embrace it!
3. Can fat be fashionable?  Answer;  I think we all know that the answer is YES!  Now we have so many options for sexy, trendy fashions that there is no reason on earth we have to run around in MU-MU'S (unless you like them).  Those are just some of the questions and discussions I am going to address on this blog.  Some other topics will be "What dress style looks best on my figure?"  and "Is this too much contouring?"

Check out how big is most
seriously SEXY!